Advice about "finding" one's self has a decidedly hippy feel to it but Socrates wasn't talking flower power when he said that 400 years before the birth of Christ.
In business, substitute being a successful leader for "finding yourself", and to do that you must assimilate all the quality input you can prior to reaching decisions as to not only what it means, but what you should do as a result.
"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
Author/lecturer
I've been reading everything I could get my hands on that has to do with the subject of "change", all of which more or less falls into two categories, business and personal.
As you might expect, the business advice is more rigid whereas personal is more touchy feely.
"Excuses Begone!" by Wayne Dyer is clearly self-help but counts among the best advice I've come across yet.
"Words ought to be a little wild, for they are the assaults of thoughts on the unthinking."
John Maynard Keynes
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Interesting coming from an economist; a profession that includes some who's analysis, rightfully or wrongly, correctly and incorrectly, tells the rest of us whether our retirement accounts will increase or decrease.
But I believe his point is, do not do that (be "unthinking"). Do not rely solely or primarily on what others think when making decisions that will affect your life.
When it comes to your major business/career decisions, how involved are you?
"The early bird may get the worm but the second mouse gets the cheese."
Unknown
An amalgamation of two quotes; the first advocating early response, the second caution. Which is most correct?
Being a "first mover" is often an advantage but in some (many?) cases, being too quick only exposes the unseen dangers that will take out the first to act. However the reverse is true as well. Fail to move quick enough and the "train" may well have left the "station".
I've been both and often still don't know which is best.
"Obstacles are things a person sees when he take his eyes off his goal."
E. Joseph Crossman
Businessman
Initially this sort of inspires you doesn't it? Makes you want to move ahead no matter what lays in your path. The problem is, things just aren't that simple.
Just as you will certainly crash if all you do while driving is concentrate on where you want to go, so too will you fail in business if you do not identify and attempt to neutralize the obstacles that can block your success.
With due respect to Mr. Crossman I suggest an alternative: Obstacles are things a person needs to identity and remove so they can continue on to their goal.
"I did what it took to win" has a "conquer all" quality to it that appeals to many, until, in many cases, you examine what "it" was, concluding you wouldn't have gone that far.
How (do) you draw the line in terms of what you will and will not do to "win"?
I would particularly like to hear from defense attorneys on this.
"Loneliness is not intolerable when enthusiasm for a quest fills the mind."
Percy Fawcett
Early 20th century British explorer
If you're thinking about quitting your job and starting your own company, think about the loneliness of working alone. You will have to deal with it and not all can.
But if your "quest" is real and you stay focused on your end goal, it is manageable.
"The willing, Destiny guides them; the unwilling, Destiny drags them."
Senaca
1st century AD Roman philosopher
It's called destiny for a reason, but that doesn't mean there is nothing you can do to shape the future.
Understood, to some degree, "inevitable" events can be manipulated; however you have know what they likely will be as well as plan what you will do as a result.