"Without contraries there is no progression. Attraction and repulsion, reason and energy, love and hate, are necessary to human existence."
William Blake (1757-1827) British poet/painter.
Opposites attempt to change each other's position and out of this either comes further separation, or new thinking that might not otherwise exist.
Which it will be depends on your goals: resistance to or acceptance of change.
The former will leave you no better than before, the latter with hope for a better future.